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I'm poor, I was poor I pour another drink. This is the theme song of pseudo-victims. I do not talk about the real victims, people Was destroyed by the hurricane have been robbed or assaulted property. I am a real victim of the disease, the story of progressive disease or cancer and not other insidious. There is, however, is to learn from some of the real victims of these For all its worth and take on the role of the victim, milk, to the suffering of others, on them to know that there are struggles Taseru they live in victory. They refuse The role of the victim. In order to resolve these (again) hard work to solve their problems.

Or how many people who either know the survivors of the accident is a serious disease However, the physical effects and some family member has the disease that is complaining? How many people complained that we are in financial trouble or not?

In contrast, if not (your?) We joke about how tough life you do not knead tired of hearing impaired? Alcoholism and his or her special personality / addicts are particularly good at this whining The position of the victim and the ugly.

Example: "What happens to me all the time?" For some events such as:

1. Missed or late appointments, meetings, etc.
2. My cell phone, glasses, lost his wallet (leave blank) to fill the
3. When I felt Jane / John did not突Ppaneta request. Message
4. I read it again with another drunk driving
5. My (her boyfriend, husband, wife, or had to fight all)
6. I was (child, dog, roommate) and feel guilty abuse
7. Through credit card, but ran late fee and finance charge
8. Not invited Party
9. Got to be passed to promote (my boss to get me all the time) that the.

If you get the point. These whiners are the only victims of their own hearts. Verify our own problems. For poisoning (remember that alcohol is a drug and alcohol addiction, alcohol addicts only) is this familiar trap. Difficult to grow Is a normal person. For addicts, drugs, alcohol, is growing more difficult, some impossible to make. Range of drug use is such an opportunity for emotional growth and maturation of normal We are supposed to get into adolescence and early adulthood. Do we keep people from spending large amounts of learning in mind the time change is clean and sober now for learning: Construction And appropriate dispute resolution in mind what our job to take responsibility for itself how to deal with life and functional way to take responsibility for what is not material Healthy relationship honesty, and their own or other people, and much more. Simply put, we do not get to do stunts our growth and expansion to become emotionally mature adults throughout adolescence and beyond That you have read all the time. Solution is all: not to get, what the proper height.

The core of your addiction and take responsibility for the incompetence of this immaturity. The addict "normal" … response is to blame someone, something, some situation, and get high. What happens next? Emotional pain! Turn one's thoughts: I'm nobody, but I'm so different … as a kid, the refrain, "I understand that the poor and I go eat worms." Reactions as adults often "have Another drink, bowls, tablets, or line input, "he said.

This is the addict, "Oh, yes, I would say that this confusion," So … Here is a catch … … … never occur, "will start creating a fix for this problem I change my behavior and my" somebody if I (I and doing harm, including, too many "), I need to do anything advanced with it Be correct. And I have to stop destructive behaviors "" I am not the victim. I have a choice about my actions, adult, for my mind … You can also experience negative thoughts and am I do not need to entertain them! "

So, the pseudo-victim, bright and always be thankful to live another day, learn from a neighbor with cancer. Or learn from Hurricane victims who are left almost nothing to one of a dozen friends and relatives, and live and share what you have to be grateful again, the soup kitchen food.

~ Justice to is the real victim who is an adult child. They are injured Tasa, abusive, emotional or otherwise. Children are really the victims, they can not be obtained from the perpetrator , Sexual abuse until they are physically or mentally, to reach a certain level of maturity. To get help to resolve many of the old pain, you can go and live a happy and productive in the final; some To get help is not enough to recover. But to help them out, find it takes a willingness to use it. As an adult, is not really a victim of other people … you might just feel like So were you really like a child. Many of the victims as a pain medication to cover the children of these people. Your drug or alcohol, and not to cover the old pain has stuck a deal to get higher That can help for all your problems. We are not alone; to get sober and who is to grow long enough to be clean, the other being that can help you stay that way using the best help For all the problems. Single CORPORATION Alanon, or a really good therapist or consultant listed all the local phone book, please find it or both! What if, you do not stop playing the victim, the real Ugly.

About the Author:

Dr. Dawn Obrecht is the only MD addiction medicine specialist on the western slope of Colorado. She is a Fellow of the American Society of Addiction Medicine and her office is in Steamboat Springs, Colorado. She does consultations and referrals anywhere in the country and can be reached at 970-846-8479 or through www.docdawn.com.

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